No, no, and not really. Being a gentlemen isn’t about materialism. My top three interests are women, philosophy, and pop culture.
“Women are more likely to be attracted to personality and men are more likely to be attracted to physical...
Sometimes it is nice to invite people to things even if you know they won’t be able to make it. I only say this because I know the feeling of… Well feeling left out (even if from afar). I think that, for people who you love in your life, it is important to always let that person know you are thinking about them and if a situation happens to work out and they happen to be near you, then frickin’ awesome! Come to whatever it is I have going on.
And if this is something you are going to rant about, try to keep it less specific. You might say, “If you don’t live within a half hour of me, don’t invite me to stuff on FB.” Instead of saying, “You live 15 hours away. I’m not coming to your birthday party.” It is very likely you are going to hurt someone’s feelings with your very specifically directed lack of tact.
Bands from all over invite people to shit all the time. No one ever complains about that.